February 2012
“People talk about sexual assault like it’s a bad habit that men have.”
– Jon Stewart (via mutualaddiction)
CRINJ - A warning about the "campaign group"... →
slut-shaming:
A WARNING... There is a “campaign group” called RINJ (Rape Is No Joke), otherwise known as SAINJ (Sex Assault Is No Joke) who started up with the objective of removing rape “joke” pages from Facebook. Many people joined their cause, “liking” their page, because they too wanted to see these rape pages removed. Unfortunately, it appears that this group had an ulterior motive. Many...
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Get called on your ignorant bullshit by someone from a marginalized group?
Don’t worry kiddies. We’re on the internet!
Simply claim you’re from the same marginalized group.
Checkmate!
“If vaginas disgust you then you hate women. If vaginas don’t actually disgust...”
– Misogyny in the Gay Community (via satifice)
whats even more disturbing is “straight” men who also hate vaginas. they wanna fuck them, but swear theyre gross: you sirs, are fucking misogynist as fuck.
(via baddominicana)
on re-blogging porn
ineffableshe:
i find it really upsetting on many levels w hen internet feminists get so burned out calling each other out on western issues (the usage of words such as “crazy,” demisexuals appropriating queerness) that they completely laugh off legit critiques about the of spread of (uncredited) fetish porn images on social networking sites such as tumblr.
you know how people are always getting...
“If I’m left without contraception, how can I plan my pregnancies? If I can’t...”
– The (Not) New War on Birth Control - we’re talking about it today. (via futureabortiondoctor)
Well, exactly. God is supposed to control my life, except by “God” we really mean “his” “agents” on earth, i.e., the patriarchal institution of the church, the husband I’m supposed to have, etc.
Yes, I...
Mmmmm
Big Black Delta I love you!
“Every time I read an article about conservatives being “pro- life” I am reminded...”
– Comment @ The ‘Safe, Legal, Rare’ Illusion - NYTimes.com
YES.
(via golden-notebook)
Minou: prettywar: bohemiandreamgirl: prettywar: So... →
goldeeswaggs:
prettywar:
bohemiandreamgirl:
prettywar:
So is there a secret to wearing high heels or do you really just have to suffer through it?
These are lovely.
Secrets to wearing high heels:
1) Buy decent heels. Roughly, the cheaper the heel, the more painful. Good shoes are a craft….
Also, try wearing shoes that DON’T scream “I will put up with discomfort and permanent damage...
Achievements.
Menu for the week complete
Groceries shopped for
Pumpkin/lentil/spinach curry cooking now :)
Here Sucks. [trigger warning: violence]
everythingbutharleyquinn:
codyjhlsmith:
Last night I was walking home from a friend’s house and I turned onto a popular, busy, main road and was instantly threatened.
“Hey faggot” some dude said to which I replied “Hey what?”. I got a punch to my right cheek and a few to my abdomen and the dude laughed to his friends. My memory is a bit fuzzy but I know I didn’t respond to him. I flagged a...
everythingbutharleyquinn:
pastelchainsaw:
Beauty-Tip #9 : HOME MADE BATHS
Here is an article for you about different sorts of home-made baths that you can make at home. Theses recipes will help you, your skin, your body… just choose the most appropriate one for yourself :)
Bath with sea salt Stir in water 350 gr. of natural sea salt and lay in this “sea” for about 15-20 minutes....
Asherah: Significant Other Problems by #172 →
camgirlsconfess:
Sorry this isn’t exactly a rant about a regular member of mine, but since he does have a membership, and for the fact that I am a camgirl who has been wanting to rant about this anonymously for some time, but never had the venue to do it until now, I think this submission…
I guess we are all different. I do in person Domination work. I find that getting into my work...
Homophobic violence happening in Newtown
everythingbutharleyquinn:
When even the queer neighbourhoods are unsafe, tell me again it’s gotten better.
Wow…in Newtown. That’s appalling.
prettywar:
bohemiandreamgirl:
prettywar:
So is there a secret to wearing high heels or do you really just have to suffer through it?
These are lovely.
Secrets to wearing high heels:
1) Buy decent heels. Roughly, the cheaper the heel, the more painful. Good shoes are a craft. Anything from Payless will cripple you.
2) Platforms are a LOT more comfy than thin soles. They lift you off the...
wontbecomplacent:
Epic Self Care Post
sundownsocialwork:
Self care according to the senses:
Scent. Burn scented candles or incense. Pick some fresh flowers or herbs for your home (basil = heaven). Fry onions or garlic if it’s your thing (it’s definitely mine). If you can afford to, buy some essential oils that make you feel relaxed. You can wear them as perfume or dilute them with water and...
“As all advocates of feminist politics know most people do not understand sexism...”
– bell hooks (via thevirtualpostit)
How to Be a Good Guy on the Sidewalk →
stfuhypocrisy:
A number of men have asked us the same question recently: if you’re walking on a dark street near a lady, how can you let her know you’re not a threat? So this week, we offer some tips for dudes who’d like to help women feel more comfortable in public spaces.
Act normal.
Neal Irvin, executive director of Men Can Stop Rape, told me the most important thing men can do to help women...